Q: My husband has a long penis, but it isn’t very thick. I don’t think my vagina is big but I just don’t feel it much when he is inside me and he never cums from intercourse. I generally have to perform oral or do it by hand. Is there any way I can make my vagina smaller so it will hug his thin penis?
A: Let me first start by saying, that the problem is that you have a large vagina. The vagina is muscle and can become loose due to childbirth, lack of sex, age or just anatomy. The average girth of an erect penis is 5.2 inches. Compare that to the circumference of a tampon and you realize that the vagina is very complex. When you slide your finger in, the walls are tight around it, yet a 6 pound baby can move through it with success. So, to answer your question. . .If your husband doesn’t have a lot of girth, there is something you can do to make it more pleasurable when he is inside you. Kegel exercises are amazing and when done consistently will tighten your vaginal muscle dramatically. They can be done anywhere, anytime. Simply squeeze your vagina as if you were holding in pee. Squeeze tightly and hold it for 10 seconds to start out. Repeat this 10 times. Increase the time and repetitions over time. You can also add pulses to your routine where you tighten, release in a quick motion. Not only will this tighten your vagina walls in general, it will give you great control in the bedroom. So while his penis may slip in relatively easy, you will have the ability to squeeze, squeeze, squeeze and wrap your walls nicely around him. With practice you can actually massage his penis with you vagina by tightening and releasing over and over. There are also gels on the market that create friction in the vagina, giving both of you more pleasure. Try both of these and soon your husband will feel like a giant cobra slithering its way into an ant hole.